Messes have been a trigger for parents in my family for GENERATIONS… And to be fully transparent, I still have to fight being triggered when I see messes like this... But I recently realized something. My sister and I had a conversation with our mom a few days ago about her response to our messes in childhood. As she recalled her upbringing, she realized her reactions to us were the same reactions she’d seen from her own mom. As we traced these triggers back through our family lineage, we realiz